In response to my post, Gather The Troops, I was asked to create a list of the Christian rules of engagement.

Forced to grow up too quickly, adults who were parentified are easy to spot once you know the signs.

Empaths give so freely and generously to others that, often, the recipients of their empathy do not understand what it costs the empath.

Cognitive Dissonance Erodes Relationships, Enables Addictions, & Spiritual Backsliding

For the children involved, something which is entirely outside of their control has altered the trajectory of their lives.

Only God can bring about justice and vindicate you without causing collateral damage.

Odds are at least one person in every couple has experienced trauma. Often, wounded people are drawn to other wounded people.